The life I’m meant to lead
No book has ever captured the very essence of childhood—adventure, anxiety, fear, hope, imagination—quite like Maurice Sendak’s Where The Wild Things Are.
In October, it’s coming to life on the big screen.
The screenplay is co-written, fittingly, by Dave Eggers, an irrepressible child himself (whose unforgettable talk from The Vine 2007 can be viewed here).
It calls to mind a fantastic article that Eggers wrote for The New Yorker, in which he reflects on the reckless, movie-inspired (and often ill-conceived) adventures of his own childhood. With kitchen knives strapped to calves and crudely formed throwing stars in hand, twelve-year-old boys created imaginary worlds in the ravines near Lake Michigan.
“[A]nd with each step farther away from our regular lives and into the worlds we’d seen on film, we felt more like ourselves. We didn’t think of those movies as escapist entertainments. The worlds they depicted didn’t seem foreign or unattainable. Setting traps and running with a knife between your teeth, diving into a pit and emerging from a river, camouflaged in mud—all of it seemed far more natural, more in synch with the adrenaline that was coursing through our adolescent bodies, than anything else in our pedestrian existence. We’d cobble together an identity—a shoulder pad from “The Road Warrior,” Rambo’s sorry old Army jacket—and go looking for moments of violence. It didn’t matter that our wars were poorly planned and lacked any exit strategy. It didn’t matter that the only real enemy, in the end, was us. We would see these movies and think, That’s my life. That’s the life I’m meant to lead.
In adulthood, we’re supposed to extinguish such adolescent antics, trading them instead for the safety and stability of careers, mortgages, 401(k)s, mowing lawns and raising kids.
But these days, the adult world doesn’t seem all that safe and stable. Give me a little escapism.
I watch the movie trailer and I can’t help thinking…That’s the life I’m meant to lead.


